“How is it possible that the happiest person on the planet, the happiest, most joyous soul that any one of us knows, could end his own life?”
This question, posed by Ben Pargman, has echoed through countless hearts in Atlanta’s Jewish community since the loss of his son, Manny, just five months ago. Manny, a vibrant teen known for his humor, warmth, and musical talent, died by suicide — leaving a wake of grief, confusion, and urgent resolve.
In response, Ben launched Manny’s Band Foundation, a mental health initiative aimed at preventing youth suicide by harnessing the power of music, creativity, and authentic conversation. Manny’s Band provides youth suicide prevention training, teacher and mentor support, and awareness campaigns that educate and inspire action.
Within just 30 days of its launch, Manny’s Band reached over 100,000 views, drew in more than 4,000 band members, and mobilized 500 volunteers. Ben’s message is bold: “As a member of Manny’s Band, you are going to help change how we talk to our kids and our friends about mental health, depression, and suicide.”
The community’s energized response underscores the urgent need for mental health support. Today, one in five U.S. adults experience mental illness each year. One in six youth have a mental health condition, but only half receive treatment. 50% of all lifetime mental illness begins by age 14, and 75% by age 24. In 2022, 22% of high school students seriously considered suicide.
“COVID brought a lot of things up, and if you look historically, you unfortunately see the trends increasing, particularly with young people,” said Gabby Spatt, Vice President of Philanthropy at the Hirsch Family Fund and long-time Jewish Federation and Foundation supporter. “But I think Atlanta is a leader in Jewish mental health training, education, awareness, and community engagement. Faith plays a big role in healing, and Judaism sets us up to take care of our people. It’s a mitzvah.”
This week, our community gathered for two events focused on mental health. At Temple Sinai, families attended “Beyond the Silence”, hosted by the Blue Dove Foundation and BeWell ATL, featuring personal stories and testimony from those – including the Pargmans – who have lived through loss and found purpose in healing. That same day, Jewish Family & Career Services held “Shifting Perspectives: Understanding Neurodiversity”, a session led by Jenna Sommer that emphasized embracing diverse ways of thinking, to help young people thrive.
“We’re incredibly proud to have played such a critical role in bringing the BeWell initiative to life here in Atlanta,” said Ghila Sanders, Vice President of Philanthropic Advisory. “Through our Funders Collaborative, we helped secure vital support for JF&CS and the broader community at a time when youth mental health needed it most.”
Much of the momentum behind this work traces back to the Hirsch family, whose trailblazing investment in mental health has transformed the landscape. “The Hirschs were doing mental health before anyone else,” Gabby explained. “Their focus has always been on clinical care—providing real services for real people who otherwise couldn’t access them.”
Rooted in Jewish values and driven by their own experience with a child facing complex mental health issues, Michele and David Hirsch created a vision to help families access quality care. That vision became action. Locally, their work includes the Peaceful Family Fund—a partnership between JF&CS and the Jewish Interest-Free Loan Association—which covers the cost of inpatient mental health treatment, sometimes even travel, for families seeking specialized care not available in Atlanta. The Hirschs also made a $10 million gift to Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta, supporting a groundbreaking outpatient clinic for children with complex neuropsychiatric conditions. Located within the Zalik Behavioral Health Center, the clinic eliminates the burden of navigating the mental health system by coordinating personalized care, case management, and specialists under one roof. “It’s a total game changer.” said Spatt. “Parents don’t have to wait six months or hunt for clinicians—it’s all done for them. And it’s the first clinic of its kind in the country.”
The Hirsch Family’s work doesn’t stop at Atlanta’s borders. In Israel, their fund has supported Clubhouse Israel’s young adult mental health program, contributed to First Line Med – an initiative offering subsidized mental health services across Israel, and funded clinical social workers stationed in Thailand for post-October 7 trauma recovery. “I mean, what other country do you know of that will send clinical licensed social workers to another country to take care of their people? Only Israel does that.”
As we mark Mental Health Awareness Month, we honor Manny’s memory, elevate the work of philanthropists like the Hirschs, and commit to conversations that save lives. “I lost my younger sister to mental illness,” Gabby shared, “and that’s what’s propelled me into this work. The question is, how do we inspire, teach, and coach to realize how important mental health is before you lose somebody close to you? I think this is what people like Michele, David, and Ben are trying to do. Get the community involved before it’s too late.”
When asked what advice she would give to parents around mental health, Gabby replied “Educate yourself. Listen to your children. And remember it’s OK to ask friends questions or to share something, because nine out of ten times other people will have the same experience.”
Atlanta Jewish Foundation fundholders can support the Peaceful Family Fund and the Manny Pargman Mental Health Education Fund through a grant to JF&CS. Visit your donor portal today to make an impact.